#NeverGiveUp - ReviveRoots

My Dad: My Superhero, My Life’s Greatest Teacher

Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.
1. The saying “Himmat-e-mardaa toh madad-e-Khuda” is a timeless piece of wisdom my dad often repeats. It reflects his indomitable spirit and has been a guiding light in my life.
2. The reflections on perseverance, family values, and the strength to overcome challenges are inspired by my father’s incredible journey and the values he has instilled in me through his own life experiences.

They say, “Behind every successful man, there is a woman.”

I say, behind every strong and fearless woman is the unwavering support of a father who believed in her, even when the world didn’t. My dad is that pillar of strength who stood by me, defying societal norms and ignoring the judgments of others, choosing instead to raise me with love, pride, and unwavering belief.

He has always been my greatest supporter. Even when his pockets were empty, he never said no to my dreams. His sacrifices, big or small, ensured I felt like the most cherished child in the world. His love wasn’t just about giving—it was about empowering me to become the best version of myself.

My Dad is My Superhero. He loves and cares through thick and thin, no matter how much I offend or annoy him. From him, I learned the invaluable lesson of “Never Give Up,” a mantra I witnessed in action through his livelihood, experiences, teachings, and values. These have shaped me into who I am today—for all the right reasons.

Every time I stand tall, every time I push forward despite challenges, it’s because I know he’s right there, backing me up with his quiet strength and boundless love. His presence in my life continues to nurture and guide me, reminding me every day that I am capable of anything.

A Glimpse of His Challenges

Mental/Emotional Front: He gave up higher studies to support the family business as the eldest son. He faced the insolvency of his own business and the failure of multiple startups. Life tested him further as he endured the loss of his parents, brother, and most recently, Mom.
Physical Front: He has faced two brain strokes (25 and 24 years ago), a road accident 18 years ago that left his left side less mobile, and continues to deal with multiple health issues.

Despite these challenges on all fronts, my dad remains a fighter who never gives up. He is self-dependent and lives a disciplined life—meditating, exercising, walking, and commuting for work at least 4-5 times a week. His go-to saying, “Himmat-e-mardaa toh madad-e-Khuda,” meaning, “When men dare, God sends help,” perfectly embodies his spirit.

For me, every day is Dad’s Day. Tomorrow might be Father’s Day as per the English calendar, but I celebrate him daily—for his strength, love, and the values he has instilled in me and our family.

Dad, you are my biggest blessing, my first hero, my forever inspiration, and the ultimate fighter. Thank you for believing in me, for standing by me, and for being my rock.

Life’s journey is often guided by those who stand by us through thick and thin, and for me, that guiding force has always been my father.

Takeaway for You
Life is full of challenges, and my dad’s story is a testament to the power of resilience, discipline, and an unwavering “never give up” spirit.

Take a moment today to celebrate your superheroes—the people who inspire you and help shape your life. Let’s cherish their presence, not just on special days but every single day. ❤️

A Topper’s Inspiring Journey: From Trials to Triumph

From the sixth grade onward, we were introduced to additional subjects. I felt burdened like any other student and lacked determination and seriousness. I hadn’t performed well in the fifth standard. Concerned, my mother decided to hire a home tutor, Chetna Mam, to whom I am deeply grateful. If you are reading this, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Despite her financial struggles, Chetna Mam was highly intelligent and her life’s practical examples inspired me greatly. Her guidance transformed my thought process, and I gradually became serious about my studies. I started scoring well and consistently ranked within the top ten in my class.

At that time, we were not financially stable. My parents made significant sacrifices and struggled tremendously, yet they shielded me from our financial realities and provided the best of everything. This environment fostered my determination to achieve something significant in life. I aimed to prove to my parents that I was as capable as any son and also sought to set records in both my family and school.

During my Class 10 board exams, there were intentional disturbances at home—loud music, television on full blast—which were challenging as I needed complete silence to study. Despite these obstacles, I managed to score 88%, placing fourth highest in my school. Although I was disappointed for not topping my school, I was proud of my achievement and had a strong desire to pursue science and become an engineer.

Unfortunately, my school did not offer science courses for higher education, and my parents could not afford to send me to another school where I could study science, due to the high cost of books. When reapplying, I went with my mother to enroll in the 11th grade at the same school. My principal urged me to attend a different school and pursue science. However, I interjected, telling her, “Mam, it’s my decision to study commerce, and I want to continue my education here.” I’ve always believed that “everything happens for a reason,” and I felt that choosing science might have led to failure. As a 16-year-old girl, I decided to study commerce at the same school.

Even then, things were not easy; my sister’s engagement was called off just days before my boards, creating a vulnerable situation at home. Instead of losing hope, I chose to fight and focus on my studies. My determination paid off as I topped the 12th standard ISC Board. My parents, siblings, friends, relatives, and principal were incredibly proud of me, and my achievement was even highlighted in the newspaper. It was my first significant accomplishment, and I felt on top of the world, elated by the tears of joy in my parents’ eyes and the pride expressed by my sisters.

Advice for My Readers: Don’t just dream; you are the only one responsible for turning your vision into reality. If you dream big, be prepared for obstacles. Never lose hope, remain steadfast, and continue working towards your dreams.